BLD: Avoid pybind11 2.13.3 due to Windows quoting bug

See pybind/pybind11#5300 (comment)

Author: QuLogic

pyproject.toml

@@ -47,7 +47,7 @@ requires-python = ">=3.10"
 dev = [
     "meson-python>=0.13.1",
     "numpy>=1.25",
-    "pybind11>=2.6",
+    "pybind11>=2.6,!=2.13.3",
     "setuptools_scm>=7",
     # Not required by us but setuptools_scm without a version, cso _if_
     # installed, then setuptools_scm 8 requires at least this version.
@@ -71,7 +71,7 @@ build-backend = "mesonpy"
 # Also keep in sync with optional dependencies above.
 requires = [
     "meson-python>=0.13.1",
-    "pybind11>=2.6",
+    "pybind11>=2.6,!=2.13.3",
     "setuptools_scm>=7",
 
     # Comments on numpy build requirement range:

requirements/dev/build-requirements.txt

@@ -1,4 +1,4 @@
-pybind11
+pybind11!=2.13.3
 meson-python
 numpy
 setuptools-scm