Allow benchmarking larger-than-memory datasets

[ashkrisk]

Build on patches introduced earlier in the series to allow BenchYAML to process that don't fit in physical memory, by memory-mapping the index vectors instead of fully loading them upfront.

This behaviour is opt-in and requires you to set -Djvector.bench.dataset.mmap.enable=true to enable.

Additionally, fixes a concurrency issue with RAVV handling in Grid, and makes the output directories configurable

Summary of changes:

• Add a RavvDataSet wherein the index vectors are backed by a RAVV.
• Add a function to DataSetInfo to return a DataSet backed by memory-mapped files, using RavvDataSet.
• Consume the new DataSet from BenchYAML
• Fix a concurrency issue in Grid where RAVV#getVector was being called from multiple threads at once
• Make Grid's work directory and index cache directory configurable via environment variables. (Useful if you have an SSD on a separate mount)

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