Add Topic Writer metrics

[KirillKurdyukov]

Add ACK duration, oldest in-flight age and buffer wait duration metrics.

Depends on #747.

[codecov]

Codecov Report

❌ Patch coverage is 72.46377% with 19 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.
✅ Project coverage is 75.47%. Comparing base (181e39c) to head (b6c9c5a).

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
.../java/tech/ydb/topic/write/impl/BufferManager.java	76.66%	3 Missing and 4 partials ⚠️
.../java/tech/ydb/topic/write/impl/WriterMetrics.java	68.42%	4 Missing and 2 partials ⚠️
...in/java/tech/ydb/topic/write/impl/SentMessage.java	57.14%	3 Missing ⚠️
...ava/tech/ydb/topic/write/impl/EnqueuedMessage.java	60.00%	2 Missing ⚠️
...in/java/tech/ydb/topic/write/impl/WriterQueue.java	87.50%	1 Missing ⚠️

❌ Your patch check has failed because the patch coverage (72.46%) is below the target coverage (80.00%). You can increase the patch coverage or adjust the target coverage.

Additional details and impacted files

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- Coverage                   75.48%   75.47%   -0.01%     
- Complexity                   3764     3784      +20     
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  Files                         396      396              
  Lines                       16869    16928      +59     
  Branches                     1787     1799      +12     
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+ Hits                        12734    12777      +43     
- Misses                       3515     3528      +13     
- Partials                      620      623       +3     

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